Pools of sorrow waves of joy
Are drifting through my opened mind
Possessing and caressing me.” – Across the Universe, The Beatles
I’m a master at navigating the stormy waters of anxiety and almost chronic depression.
I hide it really well in front of my friends and family and I should own those drama masks that are perpetually smiling and frowing. On the internet however it is another beast entirely. I have a problem with tweeting a lot of my emotional struggles & it’s not okay. Especially when I’m on breaks (like this one) that are only a month long but thanks to the weather they feel like an eternity.
A couple of nights ago while trying to fall asleep my brain started to kick itself into over-drive. It started to create lists that I felt like needed to be addressed then and only then, because who needs sleep, right? It was one of those nights where my anxiety came in tsunami- like waves and my happiness only felt like sprinkles on an unbearably hot day.
Now that I’m back at school and the semester is only two days in I can’t help but feel that anytime now all of the good things are going to come to a screeching halt and I’ll be full of shrapnel.
Today I took a chance to help with the inevitable and scheduled my first appointment with a counselor in two years.
This semester I’ve also started to make promises to myself that I have resigned to keep and they are as follows;
1. If you’re feeling lonely seek out friends.
2. Don’t stress eat with food that will turn your insides into something unrecognizable.
3. If your head is becoming polluted with thoughts that shouldn’t be there go for a walk or something and clear that head!
4. Don’t let yourself get overly stressed out-some stress is good-too much will probably kill you.
5. Smile more.
6. Remember, masochism never looks good on anybody.
Even now looking at my scars from my five open heart surgeries and from my partial hysterectomy that runs from the top of my belly button to the top of my pelvis bone and the scar that my PICC line left, I am often reminded that even though my body has tried to kill me more times than I care to count I can’t give in and let it win now. Not when I have so much more to lose than I did just four years ago.
So here’s to a better today, an even better tomorrow because I have no reason to be as depressed and anxious as I am.
I found this quote last night and had to immediately share in on my Facebook and Tumblr because of how it resonated with me at that moment and as a little reminder to myself I got a picture of me when I was a kid and two note cards and wrote the quote down and stuck it to my mirror.